Bit of a back story Mr Shrink is also keen to lose a bit of weight, he is a fussy eater like me although he's tried 2 diets slimming world for about a day and calorie counting, where he did lose a stone but didn't eat much because he drinks a lot of full fat coke and eats nothing but freezer stuff and hates fresh fruit and veg. I have major food issues that basically involve me being physically sick if I attempt to eat something like veg or soup but I no if I have any hope of dieting successfully I need to get over this.
Yesterday I asked something of Mr Shrink that was completely selfish and it got me thinking because I have always considered myself a pretty unselfish person daily I go out of my way to put other peoples needs and wants before my own with the exception of my husband.
I asked him to join slimming world and do it properly knowing that he hated it the first time, I told him I needed him to get over his food issues to help me get over mine and I told him that If he didn't then I wouldn't. I can't do it on my own I can't sit there and watch while he eats sweets and crisps and crappy food while I'm desperately trying to cling onto one plan or another. We both need to lose weight and this is the most sensible way of doing it. Thankfully I am married to a wonderful man who agreed without much grumbling and even agreed that it will be good for both of us, he's a bit embarrassed about going to group but that's mainly because he thinks there are no men but the one down the road has a fair few.
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